Bet Me

I was originally induced --- though perhaps seduced would be a better word --- to read Jennifer Crusie's Bet Me when I leaned over in bed one evening to ask my darling wife what she was reading and she said "don't bother me now, I'm just to the part where she's tied up and he's eating donuts off her boobs." And the scene in question does not fail to deliver. However, what amazed me throughout the book was that Crusie has just used "romance novel" to hang a real story from, and in doing so, she has real characters who actually occupy three dimensions and undergo character development, even the supporting cast. The dynamics of the main characters' families is pretty amazing, and was magnificently written. And the development of the relationship between our protagonists is deep and affecting: they each understand the other’s family in a way that gives them insight into one another. Very good stuff on multiple levels. 

[[This review published today in honor of our wedding anniversary, because Liz recommended this book to me.]]

"There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered: entertainment, food, and affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection is the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. Under no circumstances can the food be omitted."

     --- Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior, by Judith Martin